WHY A WIFE SHOULD ALSO EARN ΜΟΝΕΥ ΤOO

WHY A WIFE SHOULD ALSO EARN ΜΟΝΕΥ ΤOO....

No matter how wealthy a husband is, the wife should also earn her own money. Whether through employment, or business. Whether she earns more money than him, she needs to earn her own money for the following reasons...

TO TAME THE HUSBAND

Some Men cheat and feel like they can get away with cheating on a woman who has no financial muscle. These men who cheat know that the woman can do nothing without him and so she will stay home with the child/children regardless of how bad he treats her. The first thing a man who is cheating and destroying a woman does is to financially strangle her. When a man has a wife who is financially capable of standing on her own, he tends to be in his good behavior because he knows she can walk out the moment he cheats, even with the child/children because she is capable. Men rarely mess with empowered women, such a woman can stand up to him. Wives with no finances, put up with all the evil done to them because they have been locked out of outside help and contact; their life is at home, no matter how toxic that home is

✔ FOR PERSONAL FULFILLMENT In as much as men have dreams and feel fulfilled as they pursue them, women have dreams too. The same joy a man feels when providing for his family, building, funding projects; the woman should feel that too. Just like a man, when a woman does her dream job, lives her dreams, earns money and contributes to society; she feels more confident and filled with dignity

✔ TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE

A man is great by himself, but with his wife, he is greater, and so is the woman. When both husband and wife combine forces, they have better returns. More money never hurts a family that knows how to use money

✔TO PURSUE HER CAUSES

We all as individuals have a personal cause we want to take care of in society. A woman might feel passionate about the environment, the arts, cyber security, orphans, leadership, fashion, health. When she has her own money that she has earned, after using part of the money in the family and marriage; she can finance those personal causes without begging for her husband to believe in and fund what she is so passionate about. Having her own money empowers her

✔ FOR STABILITY Yes, storms happen in life. The husband can become broke,

retrenched, his business can suffer huge losses or even worse, he could get sick or involved in an accident. When the productivity of the husband gets negatively affected or paused, the wife can step in even more and make sure the needs of the family are still

met

✔TO MAKE GOOD USE OF HER SKILL

She was taken to good schools; Primary to High School, maybe even University. Perhaps she has a Degree, Masters or PhD. Life has also taught her a lot and she has gained many skills and much wisdom; surely, all that should be put into productive use. Lady, don't waste your life away. Get out there and get involved. Work

✔TO REDUCE OVER-DEPENDENCE ON THE MAN

Instead of her constantly turning to her husband and asking money for hair, fuel, food, clothes, sanitary pads. She can be interdependent. Yes, interdependent because lady, just because you earn your own money doesn't mean you two don't need each other. He is still your husband. You are in this together. The husband feels good when sometimes the wife says "Relax honey, I got this!" Now that is a Queen

✔TO MODEL TO THE CHILDREN When mom is earning and is successful in her career or business; the son learns that women are not weak and that they can work hard just like men. The daughter learns to believe in herself and dream big dreams, 'If mum can do it, so can l' she thinks

TO BE AT PAR WITH HER HUSBAND Many husbands eventually find their housewife not as challenging, the two drift apart. That is because, as the husband works and earns, he grows in many ways professionally, socially, mentally and physically. But the housewife, all her life is largely about children, and house chores. Conversations with her are not as engaging as with the people outside

who are working or in business. The wife should find something challenging to do, even if it means running an online business or commercial blog. As she engages in more than household matters, she grows, just like the husband is growing

✔ SHE IS MORE THAN A WIFE AND A MOTHER

A woman is capable of not just being a good wife and mother, but also a good social leader, business person, career woman, public figure, activist, scholar. She can balance it all. She has so much potential. There is more to her than being a wife and mother. She was

created with a destiny to realize. 

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為什麼一個老婆應該賺錢....

丈夫再有錢,妻子也要自己賺。 無論是透過就業還是商業。 她賺的錢是否比他多,她需要自己賺,原因有以下幾點...

✅以便馴服老夫人

有些男人出軌,覺得自己可以逃離一個沒有經濟肌肉的女人。 這些出軌的男人都知道,女人沒有他什麼都不能做,所以不管他對她有多壞,她都會跟孩子/孩子在家。 男人出軌毀掉女人的第一件事就是經濟上勒死她。 當一個男人有一個經濟能力自立的妻子時,他往往會表現良好,因為他知道在出軌的那一刻,就算帶著孩子/孩子,因為她有能力。 男人很少惹有權力的女人,這樣的女人對得起他。 沒有經濟的妻子,因為被關在外界的幫助和聯繫,忍受一切惡行;生活在家,家裡再毒。

✅專為個人充實

男人有夢想,追求時感到滿足,女人也有夢想。 男人為家庭、建築、資助項目供應時,感受到同樣的快樂;女人也應該感受到。 就像男人一樣,當一個女人做著夢想的工作,實踐著夢想,賺錢出力,為社會做出貢獻時;她更有自信,更有尊嚴。

✅兩個比一個好

男人靠自己很偉大,有妻子就更偉大,女人也是。 夫妻雙方武力結合,有更好的回報。 錢再多,永遠不會傷害一個懂得利用錢的家庭

✅追求她的關注

我們身為個人都有我們想要在社會上照顧的個人事業。 女性可能對環境、藝術、網路安全、孤兒、領導力、時尚、健康感到熱情。 當她有自己賺來的錢,用了家庭和婚姻的一部分錢後,她可以資助那些個人事業,而不求丈夫相信,並且資助她所熱衷的事業。 有自己的錢使她有權力

✅為穩定

是的,暴風雨發生在生活中。 丈夫可能破產、重新發揮,生意可能遭受巨大損失,甚至更糟糕,可能生病或捲入意外。 當丈夫的生產力受到負面影響或停頓時,妻子可以更加介入,確保仍滿足家庭的需求

✅讓她的技能好用

她被帶到好學校;小學到高中,甚至可能是大學。 也許她有學位、碩士或博士。 生活也教會了她很多,她得了很多技能,很多智慧;該有的,都要發揮成效。 女士,不要浪費你的生命。 出去參與。 工作

✅為了對男人過度深入

而不是她不斷向丈夫討錢買頭髮、燃料、食物、衣服、衛生巾。 她可以相互依存。 是的,相互依存是因為女士,只是因為你自己賺錢並不代表你們兩個不需要彼此。 他仍然是你的丈夫。 你們在一起。 老公有時老婆說「放鬆,親愛的,我有這個!」 "現在那是女王

✅模範孩子

當媽媽在賺錢,在事業上或生意上都有成;兒子知道女人並不弱者,可以像男人一樣努力工作。 女兒學會相信自己,做大夢。 「如果媽媽可以做到,我也可以」她覺得

✅與她的老公一起

許多丈夫最終覺得他們的家庭主婦不那麼挑戰,兩人分開。 那是因為,當丈夫工作和賺錢,他在專業、社會、精神和身體上都有許多方面成長。 但家庭主婦,她的一生很大程度上都是關於孩子和家務。 與她的對話不如與外面工作或經營業務的人互動。 妻子應該找些有挑戰性的事情做,即使是經營網路商業或商業部落格。 當她從事家事多,她會成長,就像丈夫在成長一樣

✅她比妻子和母親更多

女人不僅是賢妻良母,更是優秀的社會領導者、商人、事業女性、公眾人物、活動人士、學者。 她可以平衡一切。 她很有潛力。 對她來說比為妻子和母親多。 她創造了一個命運才能實現。